Can anyone create or give me a script that I can use to email a user automatically when I kill one of their processes?
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Can you give me a script to allow me to email a user (entering email manually) when a process is killed? Like showing what the PID was and a reason the admin killed it? Is this possible?
Yes, it is possible.
But, I am afraid, no one has enough time to write down a script for you.
Why don't you try out by yourself and reply back if you face any issue?
I assume that you have are a regular UNIX user or even have some basic shell scripting knowledge if so,
Try to adapt the following scripts posted here and here to satisfy your needs.