Help: Find established conn source

Hi Friends,

On one of my server which having direct connection to internet without firewall ..am seeing a established connection with SSH .. am not getting how ..there no login but I can see this established connection .

## have hidden original IPs with below notations for security concerns .
My-IP: A.B.C.Z
Unknown-IP: W.X.Y.Z

# netstat -antpu | grep -i  W.X.
tcp        0      1 A.B.C.Z:38726          W.X.Y.Z:6667         ESTABLISHED    8997/sshd

After that have restricted the access by below Blindly ..

# vi /etc/hosts.deny
sshd,sshdfwd-X11:ALL
*:W.X.Y.Z
# vi  /etc/hosts.allow
sshd,sshdfwd-X11:  A.B.C.

## Set below iptables

# iptables -A INPUT -s W.X.Y.Z  -j DROP
# iptables -A OUTPUT -d W.X.Y.Z -j DROP
# service iptables save

# Now I can see below connection that with W.X.Y.Z

# netstat -antpu | grep -i W.X
tcp        0      1 A.B.C.Z:25631          W.X.Y.Z:6667          SYN_SENT    8997/sshd

Many time have killed this connection by killing above PID and after 1-2 minutes it again established connection over port: 666* that is below in my services files

ircu-3          6667/tcp        ircd    # IRCU
ircu-3          6667/udp        ircd    # IRCU

As per my understanding some of my system process is trying to sent packet to this W.X.Y.Z ip and waiting for ack response that is this SYN_SENT .

Please help me to find the root cause, how I can find which process/sw is trying to establish connection to this IP (W.X.Y.Z) and how I can block it fully ..

--Shirish Shukla