If you are connecting to a Windows server with your ftp, which I assume that you are, you'll have to use Windows commands to search and locate the files that you are looking for. The commands within a ftp session are limited. Google "windows ftp commands" to find a list of them.
The unix command "find" is not available within a ftp session. Some ftp commands have similar syntax to unix commands but when you are in an ftp session you are not in a unix shell. If your only access to the server is an anonymous ftp session it may be advisible to approach the administrator of the server to handle filesystem maintenance tasks.