Check a specific word whether is in file

I want to valid a specific word whether it is contained in the text file. For example:

family.txt
father
mother
son
sister

if ("father" contain in family.txt)
     do some process
else
    do other process

How shell scripting can accomplish this? Anyone can provide helps?

Hi dude,

With Regards
Anish Kumar.v

if [[ -n `grep -m 1 'father' family.txt` ]]; then
     # do some process
else
     # do some other process
fi

This is what i got

grep: illegal option -- m
Usage: grep -hblcnsviw pattern file . . .

May i know where did i do wrong?