i have a server and several ip-addresses pointing to it.
now i want
a) that the server can be reached on all ip adresses from the internet
b) that i can access the internet from the server and decide which IP-address is being used ( i can specify "bind-ip-adress" in my application )
Neither of these resources is the answer to your question. You need to configure your network interfaces and set up routing properly; however, this is somewhat platform dependent. The important commands are ifconfig and route, and then maybe you have a firewall and need to make it cooperate. On Debian-based systems /etc/network/interfaces collects this stuff but other platforms have other tools and conventions, and basic Linux simply scatters this all over the place.