Problem in Hp Unix 11 telnet srvice !!!!

Hi all, I have problem in my HP Unix 11 server . my problem is :
When I try to telnet it, it gives me this error " connection refused by remote host" I asked one of my friends he told me you have to start telnet service and he did that by executing command like this " inited -c " or some thing like this I am not sure . after that I was able to telnet my hp unix server but when I reboot it the problem comes again , Please Please first tell me how to start the Telnet service and how to check if it is working - I tried this command " ps -ef | grep telnet " with no results - and finally how to make the telnet service starts automatically when I start the server ??
Note: when I reboot the server I can not telnet it but I can use ssh command from another HP Unix server " ssh root@MY_SERVER_IP" after my friend restart the telnet service ...

Really I am so sorry for my BAD ENGLISH .....

Check the file /etc/inetd.conf

Mine shows a line
telnet stream tcp nowait root /usr/lbin/telnetd telnetd
which starts the telnet service at reboot or if you execute inetd -c.

inetd -c reconfigures the Internet daemon; in other words, forces the current inetd to reread /etc/inetd.conf.

Question:
Why telnet if ssh works?

http://docs.hp.com/en/B2355-60127/inetd.conf.4.html